The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a F**K – Sarah Knight

Before Mark Manson published his Subtle Art, Sarah Knight had released the same topic with an all-too-similar title.

According to Knight herself, an inspiration for her book (and unintentional title) is Marie Kondo’s The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up.

The book helps the reader identify and prioritize the things you should and shouldn’t give a fuck about. We give way too many fucks according to Knight. For a happier and more comfortable life, it’s good to get rid of many of those joyless fucks and get more committed to the fuck you do care about.

Knight categorizes the fuck into 4 groups: Things, Work, Friends and Family. Each of these categories are explored by Knight and for each she comes up with an approach.

Halfway through the book, I called it a day and flipped through the rest of it. Fuck It. There’s no point in reading it anymore.

Save time

Free after Seth Godin:

Don’t watch television

Don’t go to meetings

Instead:

Look at the blank space beween you and the future.

What is high leverage work.

(versus what crappy task is there only to keep you from doing the real work).

How to change a habit

Not mine, but from James Clear:

Start (very) small)

Increase in very small ways – 1% better every step

Break habits into chunks

When you slip, get back on track immediately (don’t let the slippage become a habit). Don’t Miss Twice.

Be patient. Stick to your pace. It is not the last sentence that finished the novel.

Mik Kersten – Project to Product

An addition to the more lyrical and tactically oriented DevOps foundation books from Gene Kim, this book presents a method to scale agile in large organizations.

Mik Kersten introduces the Flow Framework, a way of linking product development planning, the activities around product development and the integration of supporting tools.

The different types of “flows” (work that must be done do improve the product – my words) that Kersten identifies are Features, Defects, Risks and Technical Debts. Flows must attribute to some business result, whether improved product value, cost (reduction), better quality or customer happiness.

Martin Parr booklet by Phaidon

The small book “Martin Parr” from Phaidon has a relatively extensive introduction (I mean: for such a small book) to the work of Martin Parr. We see how he develops from a black and white photographer of British life into the critical flash & color photographer of life’s peculiarities as we know him today. 

The book  furthermore is a guide to how you can read a picture. Maybe a bit over the top now and then:

… the picture recalls Bernini’s sculpture of Daphne sprouting leaves and branches… (picture of girl on school party).

It must also refer to the psychological complexity of attending school”(boy with mother a grammar school).

Wonderful pictures of a stuffed owl, sausages, a cup of tea, and many other ordinary objects and scenes depicted in Parr’s unique manner.